FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection
Welcome to Fulfillment Therapy. I’m Kendra Nielson—wife, mom, licensed therapist, and someone who’s been right where you are. If you’re doing everything “right” but still feel exhausted, overwhelmed, and empty inside, know you’re not alone. Maybe you thought life, marriage, and parenting would be simpler or more rewarding by now, yet some days all you want to do is hide under the covers, scroll and series binge endlessly, or reach for comfort food instead of facing the stress and chaos at home. I get it—I’ve been there.
This podcast was created for people like you—parents and adults in the thick of it, juggling family, work, and personal growth, struggling to find balance and meaning in the daily grind. Here, we talk real life, real struggles, and real solutions to help you break free from the exhausting rat race. We’ll take small, doable steps toward flourishing, improving your mental health, and living with purpose—even when life feels overwhelming.
You’ll find honest conversations with other leading experts and practical tools to reduce stress, handle overwhelm, and care for yourself without guilt or shame. We’ll explore how to refill your cup, set healthy boundaries, and reconnect with your values so you have more energy and joy to share with your family. It’s about creating a life that feels meaningful to you without unrealistic perfectionism.
We’ll transform exhaustion into strength, chaos into calm, and daily survival into a life you love. It really is possible!
Reach out anytime at hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org and join our community on Facebook and Instagram @fulfillmenttherapy.
Visit fulfillmenttherapy.org for more support and resources.
This is your space to heal, grow, and flourish. It’s time to start living the life you were born to live.
Connect → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com
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Listen on:
Episodes
Thursday Feb 20, 2025
Thursday Feb 20, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we delve into the principles of gentle parenting with guest Kensi Evans. We explore the challenges of implementing this approach, especially with young children, and discuss the importance of natural consequences and parental accountability. Kensi shares personal insights on overcoming guilt, making amends, and fostering open communication with children as they grow older.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Monday Feb 17, 2025
Monday Feb 17, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode of Fulfillment Therapy, we delve into the concept of defensiveness and its impact on parenting and relationships. Through a quick self-assessment, you will identify your own defensive behaviors and learn how these reactions can strain family connections. We discuss practical strategies for overcoming defensiveness, including self-awareness, active listening, and empathy, while sharing relatable stories that illustrate these concepts in action.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
Dr. John Gottman, renowned relationship expert, states: "Defensiveness is really a way of blaming your partner. You're saying, in effect, 'The problem isn't me, it's you.”
Brené Brown, research professor and author, reminds us: "Defensiveness is a sign that we're not willing to own our part in a situation. It's a way of avoiding vulnerability."
Dr. Daniel Siegel, psychiatrist and mindfulness expert, explains: "Mindsight is a kind of focused attention that allows us to see the internal workings of our own minds. It helps us be aware of our mental processes without being swept away by them."
Thursday Feb 13, 2025
Thursday Feb 13, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode of Fulfillment Therapy, we explore the concept of midlife career pivots for overwhelmed parents. We discuss the signs of when it's time for a change, strategies to overcome fear and resistance, and practical steps for transitioning to a more fulfilling career. Learn how to balance your career aspirations with family responsibilities, embrace a growth mindset, and maintain work-life balance during your professional reinvention.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
"The biggest adventure you can take is to live the life of your dreams." - Oprah Winfrey
"The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle." - Steve Jobs
"Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work." - Steve Jobs
Monday Feb 10, 2025
Monday Feb 10, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore the powerful "trifecta" of assertiveness, ownership, and boundaries in parenting and personal growth. Learn how to communicate your needs effectively, take responsibility for your actions, and set healthy limits that benefit both you and your family. Discover practical strategies to implement these concepts in your daily life and witness the positive ripple effect on your children and relationships.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Thursday Feb 06, 2025
Thursday Feb 06, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode of Fulfillment Therapy, we explore the challenges and importance of maintaining adult relationships while navigating the demands of parenthood. I also share some personal stories and practical strategies for nurturing partnerships, friendships, and family connections beyond parenting roles. Learn how to overcome common obstacles like time constraints and guilt, and discover the positive impact that healthy adult relationships can have on your parenting journey and overall well-being.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
"We need meaningful friendships and connections in our lives, and it's hard — not just because we're busy — but because it hasn't been modeled for us in our society in a way that makes us trust our ability to do it." - Priya Parker, The Art of Gathering
"As you remove toxic people from your life, you free up space and emotional energy for positive, healthy relationships." - John Mark Green, You Deserve Better
Monday Feb 03, 2025
Monday Feb 03, 2025
Show Notes:
In this deeply personal episode, we explore the impact of past trauma on intimate relationships and parenting. We discuss the challenges of healing, the importance of self-compassion, and practical steps for reclaiming joy and connection in our lives. This episode offers hope and guidance for parents looking to break cycles of trauma and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships with their partners and children.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Thursday Jan 30, 2025
Thursday Jan 30, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, Leisha Drews and I talk about the common struggles of overwhelmed and burnt-out parents. We discuss the importance of self-care, setting boundaries, and taking ownership of one's well-being to improve overall family dynamics. I also share practical tools such as the ownership model, assertiveness training, and habit tracking to help parents rediscover their identities and meet their own needs. This episode offers valuable insights for parents looking to transform their mental health and create a more fulfilling family life through intentional self-improvement.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Leisha Drews:
https://leishadrews.com/
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/happily-hormonal-hormone-balance-pro-metabolic-balance/id1640719713
https://www.amazon.com/HORMONAL-metabolic-hormones-naturally-hormonal/dp/B0BB7NZ7C8
Monday Jan 27, 2025
Monday Jan 27, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, Ricki Schwab, a Local Coordinator for Ayusa, shares her decade-long experience in international student exchanges and how it has shaped her approach to parenting and fostering global understanding. We explore practical strategies for introducing cultural diversity into everyday family life, from handling cultural misunderstandings to creating meaningful cross-cultural experiences at home. Ricki offers valuable insights on raising open-minded children and debunks common myths about exposing kids to different cultures. Listeners will gain actionable tips for nurturing cultural intelligence and empathy in their families, paving the way for a more inclusive and globally aware next generation.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Ricki Schwab’s Links:
rsschwab@ayusa.org
https://www.ayusa.org/
Idaho Organizations: Global Talent - refugee work talent
International Rescue Community - volunteer with refugees
Idaho Office for Refugees
GLOCAL - Host refugee baby showers
Thursday Jan 23, 2025
Thursday Jan 23, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode of Fulfillment Therapy, we delve into the complexities of shifting faith and its impact on family dynamics. Drawing on insights from Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and Fowler's Stages of Faith Development, we discuss how parents can navigate these changes while maintaining authenticity in their relationships. Learn practical steps for embracing spiritual growth that will not only enhance your personal fulfillment but also foster a more united family environment.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quote:
Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Quote: "We have to look at, 'What am I actually doing and reinforcing through my choices? Do I need to be more cautious or do I need to challenge some of the structures for me to live more authentically?'"
Monday Jan 20, 2025
Monday Jan 20, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we delve into the powerful impact of challenging our beliefs and distinguishing them from facts. Through real client examples, we explore how this practice can alleviate stress, particularly for parents struggling with work-life balance. We discuss practical steps to identify and question limiting beliefs, opening up new possibilities for personal growth and family well-being. This episode offers valuable insights for anyone feeling overwhelmed and seeking more fulfillment in their life.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quote:
Dr. Norman Rosenthal, a psychiatrist and SAD researcher, describes it perfectly: "SAD is like a hibernation response gone awry in our modern environment."