FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection
Hey, Parents! Welcome to Fulfillment Therapy, your space for healing and personal growth, where you can nurture yourselves to enrich your family life. We know the drill - you’re constantly on the hunt for ways to be the best parent and spouse, but it often feels like there’s barely a moment to catch your breath. Balancing your duties, connecting with your kids, and tackling stress can leave you feeling completely exhausted. Mornings start with the best of intentions, but somehow, they often unravel into a whirlwind of arguments with everyone heading in different directions by the day’s end. It’s a stressful cycle, and it’s clear that something is missing. I’m Kendra, a mother and therapist who’s been there before. I’ve learned that to be the best parent you can be, you must prioritize self-care. When you stop ignoring and neglecting your own needs and well-being, you’ll find that you have more energy and less resentment to offer your family. In our relentless pursuit of being super parents, we often forget about the importance of self development and maintaining good mental health, which can lead to anxiety and depression. Balancing the responsibilities of family life while nurturing your personal growth can be difficult. However, it’s essential to become the best version of yourself to be the best parent and spouse. Fulfillment Therapy is about more than just refining your parenting skills; it’s about unlocking your full potential. It’s about rediscovering your values and faith, and creating a safe haven for both you and your family to flourish. In this podcast, we’ll learn tips on reducing stress, overwhelm, and depression, while showing you how to take better care of yourself without neglecting your family and core values. You’ll discover how to advocate for yourself--without shame--and how to nurture your individual worth in sustainable, healthy ways. By replenishing your own cup and meeting your own unmet needs, you can provide more for your family and, most importantly, yourself. We’ll work toward a life where peace, confidence, and a reduced guilt become the norm. You’ll soon discover that your dream of a balanced, joyful life will become your daily reality. It’s time to model healthy self-care, and tap into your unique gifts and talents to make family life more fulfilling than you ever imagined possible. https://fulfillmenttherapy.org Connect → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com Facebook → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/fulfillmenttherapy/
Episodes
Thursday Oct 19, 2023
Thursday Oct 19, 2023
Today, we have an incredible guest, Jordan Roper, here with us. He’s also an aspiring philanthropist who has not only made a significant impact in the world of giving but has also navigated the complex terrain of anxiety with resilience and grace. Join us as we uncover the untold story of triumph over anxiety, unravel the motivations driving philanthropic endeavors, and explore the powerful role of understanding and empathy in bridging diverse perspectives. This episode is a testament to the strength of the human spirit, the generosity that binds us, and the common ground we all seek in our shared humanity.
Shine boldly and brightly and enjoy!
-Kendra Nielson
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Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
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Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Sign up for our Costa Rican Women’s AND men’s Wellness Retreat June 16th-22nd, 2024! Anyone adult is now able to sign up! Make this the best holiday ever by purchasing this for a loved one. My husband, also a certified therapist, will be running the men’s retreat at a neighboring property. We’re including a variety of excursions like snorkeling, spear fishing, diving, sailing, and surfing, horseback riding, hot springs/mud baths, volcano and waterfall hikes, zip lining, and more. Both excursions include lodging, food, excursions, entertainment, psychoeducation, wellness resources, professional training, needed restoration and an unforgettable experience that will launch you towards becoming your best and most fulfilled self. Grab one of the few spots in this exotic getaway!
Costa Rican Retreat Details
Sign up for our FREE 45 Wellness Challenge starting the day after Labor Day on Sept 5th to October 19th. Find us on Facebook → Fulfillment Therapy and Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Monday Oct 16, 2023
Monday Oct 16, 2023
Today, we have an incredible guest, Jordan Roper, here with us. He’s also an aspiring philanthropist who has not only made a significant impact in the world of giving but has also navigated the complex terrain of anxiety with resilience and grace. Join us as we uncover the untold story of triumph over anxiety, unravel the motivations driving philanthropic endeavors, and explore the powerful role of understanding and empathy in bridging diverse perspectives. This episode is a testament to the strength of the human spirit, the generosity that binds us, and the common ground we all seek in our shared humanity.
Shine boldly and brightly and enjoy!
-Kendra Nielson
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Sign up for our Costa Rican Women’s AND men’s Wellness Retreat June 16th-22nd, 2024! Anyone adult is now able to sign up! Make this the best holiday ever by purchasing this for a loved one. My husband, also a certified therapist, will be running the men’s retreat at a neighboring property. We’re including a variety of excursions like snorkeling, spear fishing, diving, sailing, and surfing, horseback riding, hot springs/mud baths, volcano and waterfall hikes, zip lining, and more. Both excursions include lodging, food, excursions, entertainment, psychoeducation, wellness resources, professional training, needed restoration and an unforgettable experience that will launch you towards becoming your best and most fulfilled self. Grab one of the few spots in this exotic getaway!
Costa Rican Retreat Details
Sign up for our FREE 45 Wellness Challenge starting the day after Labor Day on Sept 5th to October 19th.
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Thursday Oct 12, 2023
Thursday Oct 12, 2023
Show Notes:
Today we’re discussing the challenging yet transformative journey of parenting teenagers. Join me as we explore how nurturing unconditional love, developing spiritual intuition, and creating connecting moments can not only help navigate the turbulent waters of adolescence but also empower teens to follow their inner compass. Discover the keys to family fulfillment, spiritual guidance, and harmonious connections in this crucial phase of your child's life.
Shine boldly and brightly and enjoy!
-Kendra Nielson
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Sign up for our Costa Rican Women’s AND men’s Wellness Retreat June 16th-22nd, 2024! Anyone adult is now able to sign up! Make this the best holiday ever by purchasing this for a loved one. My husband, also a certified therapist, will be running the men’s retreat at a neighboring property. We’re including a variety of excursions like snorkeling, spear fishing, diving, sailing, and surfing, horseback riding, hot springs/mud baths, volcano and waterfall hikes, zip lining, and more. Both excursions include lodging, food, excursions, entertainment, psychoeducation, wellness resources, professional training, needed restoration and an unforgettable experience that will launch you towards becoming your best and most fulfilled self. Grab one of the few spots in this exotic getaway!
Costa Rican Retreat Details
Sign up for our FREE 45 Wellness Challenge starting the day after Labor Day on Sept 5th to October 19th. Find us on Facebook → Fulfillment Therapy and Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
"Unconditional love, when given freely, has the power to heal, uplift, and transform lives."
- Dieter F. Uchtdorf
"Trust your intuition, for it knows what your conscious mind has yet to learn." - Jonas Salk
"Spiritual intuition is a parent's sixth sense, helping them understand the needs of their child's soul." - Unknown
Monday Oct 09, 2023
Monday Oct 09, 2023
Show Notes:
In Fulfillment Therapy’s milestone 50th episode, we’ll examine the transformative journey of personal growth. Join me as we celebrate 50 episodes and 25 of my most significant fulfillment victories in 2023 and how to harness the power of fulfillment therapy to fuel progress. You’ll learn the magic of incremental growth and the joy in the pursuit of becoming our best selves. Tune in for a dose of motivation, actionable takeaways, and a celebration of the extraordinary path to self-discovery.
Shine boldly and brightly and enjoy!
-Kendra Nielson
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Sign up for our Costa Rican Women’s AND men’s Wellness Retreat June 16th-22nd, 2024! There are only 11 spots total for each and spots are filling up quickly. My husband, also a certified therapist, will be running the men’s retreat at a neighboring property. We’re including a variety of excursions like snorkeling, spear fishing, diving, sailing, and surfing, horseback riding, hot springs/mud baths, volcano and waterfall hikes, zip lining, and more. Both excursions include lodging, food, excursions, entertainment, psychoeducation, wellness resources, professional training, needed restoration and an unforgettable experience that will launch you towards becoming your best and most fulfilled self. Grab one of the few spots in this exotic getaway!
Costa Rican Retreat Details
Sign up for our FREE 45 Wellness Challenge starting the day after Labor Day on Sept 5th to October 19th. Find us on Facebook → Fulfillment Therapy and Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
"The path to becoming your best self is paved with daily improvements, no matter how small. Progress is the key to greatness." - Brendon Burchard
"Your commitment to personal growth is the foundation of your success. Continuously invest in yourself, and you'll achieve extraordinary results." - Robin Sharma
"Excellence is not an accident; it's a result of consistent dedication to improvement and a relentless pursuit of your best self." - Robin S. Sharma
"The road to success is a journey of continuous learning and growth. Embrace the process, and you'll become your best self." - Tony Robbins
"The bad news is time flies. The good news is you're the pilot." -Michael Altshuler
Thursday Oct 05, 2023
Thursday Oct 05, 2023
Today is Episode number 49: Part 2 "Discovering Harmony Within: Annie’s Journey to Finding What Makes Her Soul Sing." Join us as we hear from a remarkable former client as she candidly shares her transformational path to fulfillment. From battling anxiety to conquering financial challenges and nurturing her self-care, Annie's story is a testament to resilience, growth, and the unending quest to find what truly makes her soul sing. Join us as we glean insights from Annie's inspiring journey and uncover the invaluable lessons she's learned along the way.
Shine boldly and brightly and enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Sign up for our Costa Rican Women’s AND men’s Wellness Retreat June 16th-22nd, 2024! There are only 11 spots total for each and spots are filling up quickly. My husband, also a certified therapist, will be running the men’s retreat at a neighboring property. We’re including a variety of excursions like snorkeling, spear fishing, diving, sailing, and surfing, horseback riding, hot springs/mud baths, volcano and waterfall hikes, zip lining, and more. Both excursions include lodging, food, excursions, entertainment, psychoeducation, wellness resources, professional training, needed restoration and an unforgettable experience that will launch you towards becoming your best and most fulfilled self. Grab one of the few spots in this exotic getaway!
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Sign up for our FREE 45 Wellness Challenge starting the day after Labor Day on Sept 5th to October 19th. Find us on Facebook → Fulfillment Therapy and Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Costa Rican Retreat Details
Monday Oct 02, 2023
Monday Oct 02, 2023
Today is Episode number 49: Part 2 "Discovering Harmony Within: Annie’s Journey to Finding What Makes Her Soul Sing." Join us as we hear from a remarkable former client as she candidly shares her transformational path to fulfillment. From battling anxiety to conquering financial challenges and nurturing her self-care, Annie's story is a testament to resilience, growth, and the unending quest to find what truly makes her soul sing. Join us as we glean insights from Annie's inspiring journey and uncover the invaluable lessons she's learned along the way.
Shine boldly and brightly and enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Sign up for our Costa Rican Women’s AND men’s Wellness Retreat June 16th-22nd, 2024! There are only 11 spots total for each and spots are filling up quickly. My husband, also a certified therapist, will be running the men’s retreat at a neighboring property. We’re including a variety of excursions like snorkeling, spear fishing, diving, sailing, and surfing, horseback riding, hot springs/mud baths, volcano and waterfall hikes, zip lining, and more. Both excursions include lodging, food, excursions, entertainment, psychoeducation, wellness resources, professional training, needed restoration and an unforgettable experience that will launch you towards becoming your best and most fulfilled self. Grab one of the few spots in this exotic getaway!
Costa Rican Retreat Details
Thursday Sep 28, 2023
Thursday Sep 28, 2023
Get ready to uncover how ACT's transformative principles can shape your journey towards a life of fulfillment, wellness, and mental resilience. Today we'll unlock the secrets of embracing life's challenges and propelling your growth with the power of ACT, or Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. You’ll discover how to harness psychological flexibility, emotional regulation, and values-driven living.
Shine boldly and brightly and enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Sign up for our Costa Rican Women’s AND men’s Wellness Retreat June 16th-22nd, 2024! There are only 11 spots total for each and spots are filling up quickly. My husband, also a certified therapist, will be running the men’s retreat at a neighboring property. We’re including a variety of excursions like snorkeling, spear fishing, diving, sailing, and surfing, horseback riding, hot springs/mud baths, volcano and waterfall hikes, zip lining, and more. Both excursions include lodging, food, excursions, entertainment, psychoeducation, wellness resources, professional training, needed restoration and an unforgettable experience that will launch you towards becoming your best and most fulfilled self. Grab one of the few spots in this exotic getaway!
Costa Rican Retreat Details
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"ACT is like a roadmap to a more fulfilled life. It's about learning to dance with your emotions, rather than fighting against them." -Dr. Maya Patel
"Acceptance is like opening the door to self-compassion. When we accept our struggles, we pave the way for healing." -Dr. Mark Thompson
"Adaptation is the bridge between acceptance and achievement. It's where we find the strength to rewrite our narratives." -Dr. Lisa Chen
"Achievement is the outcome of commitment. It's about turning aspirations into actions, even in the face of challenges." -Dr. James Carter
“Repentance also requires change, which, at times, can be uncomfortable. But joy and comfort are not the same thing. Sin—including the sin of complacency—limits our joy.” -Craig C. Christensen
“When we choose to repent, we choose to change! We allow the Savior to transform us into the best version of ourselves. We choose to grow spiritually and receive joy—the joy of redemption in Him. When we choose to repent, we choose to become more like Jesus Christ!” -Russell M. Nelson
Leaves on a Stream Exercise:
During the leaves on a stream exercise, you will visualize yourself resting near a stream. Whenever
thoughts enter your mind, you will imagine placing them atop a leaf, and watching as they float away.
Instead of seeing the world from “inside” your thoughts, you will take a step back and view them from
afar. By doing so, you will gain perspective on your thoughts and feelings, reducing their power.
Approach all your thoughts and emotions with equal acceptance, regardless of whether they are pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral. The objective is to cultivate awareness of your inner experiences, without the intention of improving them or changing them.
With consistent dedication, the "leaves on a stream" exercise will progressively become more effortless and beneficial.
Costa Rican Retreat Video
Monday Sep 25, 2023
Monday Sep 25, 2023
Show Notes:
Learn the surprising truths about sugar's impact on our physical health and overall wellness. Discover revealing facts and insights into why it's so important to change our cultural norms concerning nutritional health--and to do so quickly. Don't miss this eye opening episode!
Shine boldly and brightly and enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Sign up for our Costa Rican Women’s AND men’s Wellness Retreat June 16th-22nd, 2024! There are only 11 spots total for each and spots are filling up quickly. My husband, also a certified therapist, will be running the men’s retreat at a neighboring property. We’re including a variety of excursions like snorkeling, spear fishing, diving, sailing, and surfing, horseback riding, hot springs/mud baths, volcano and waterfall hikes, zip lining, and more. Both excursions include lodging, food, excursions, entertainment, psychoeducation, wellness resources, professional training, needed restoration and an unforgettable experience that will launch you towards becoming your best and most fulfilled self. Grab one of the few spots in this exotic getaway!
Costa Rican Retreat Details
"Excessive fructose consumption can disrupt insulin sensitivity, paving the way for insulin resistance and the development of type 2 diabetes. It's like a key that doesn't fit the lock anymore, leading to a cascade of metabolic issues." - Dr. Robert Lustig
"Fructose, unlike other sugars, doesn't trigger the same satiety signals in the brain. This leaves us feeling unsatisfied and more prone to continuous snacking, contributing to the cycle of weight gain and obesity." - Dr. Mark Thompson, Nutritionist
"High fructose intake can trigger inflammation and oxidative stress in the brain, both of which are key players in the progression of neurodegenerative diseases. It's like throwing fuel on the fire of cognitive decline." - Dr. Maria Johnson, Neuroscientist
According to experts, including the American Heart Association, women should consume no more than 6 teaspoons (25 grams) of added sugars per day, while men should limit their intake to 9 teaspoons (38 grams). Sadly, the reality is quite different. On average, Americans consume around 17 teaspoons of added sugars every day, which is more than double the recommended limit. Harvard says that 4.2, or 4 if rounded, grams of sugar equals one teaspoon of sugar.
Why Calories Aren't the Full Story and How Fructose Drives Weight Gain with Dr. Robert Lustig Dhru Purohit Podcast
Thursday Sep 21, 2023
Thursday Sep 21, 2023
Show Notes:
Get ready to laugh your way to better mental health in our latest episode of Fulfillment Therapy. Discover how humor therapy, backed by scientific evidence, can release those feel-good endorphins, reduce stress, and elevate your mood. Join us as we share side-splitting stories and insights from experts like Dr. Emily Williams and Dr. Sarah Martinez, showcasing the transformative power of laughter. Learn how a simple chuckle can be the key to unlocking a healthier, happier you.
Shine boldly and brightly and enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Costa Rican Retreat Video
Sign up for our Costa Rican Women’s AND men’s Wellness Retreat June 16th-22nd, 2024! There are only 11 spots total for each and spots are filling up quickly. My husband, also a certified therapist, will be running the men’s retreat at a neighboring property. We’re including a variety of excursions like snorkeling, spear fishing, diving, sailing, and surfing, horseback riding, hot springs/mud baths, volcano and waterfall hikes, zip lining, and more. Both excursions include lodging, food, excursions, entertainment, psychoeducation, wellness resources, professional training, needed restoration and an unforgettable experience that will launch you towards becoming your best and most fulfilled self. Grab one of the few spots in this exotic getaway!
Costa Rican Retreat Details
"When we laugh, our brain releases endorphins, the 'feel-good' hormones, which can alleviate stress, improve mood, and even temporarily relieve pain."-Dr. Emily Williams
"Humor therapy leverages the psychological and physiological benefits of laughter. It reduces the production of stress hormones like cortisol and increases the production of serotonin, a neurotransmitter associated with well-being." -Dr. Sarah Martinez
"It's not about being a comedian; it's about finding joy in the little things and learning to laugh at life's absurdities." -Dr. Michael Adams
"Laughter is a universal language that transcends barriers. It brings people together, fostering connections and promoting a sense of belonging, which are vital for maintaining good mental health." -Dr. Jessica Ramirez, Clinical Psychologist
"Neurologically, humor engages multiple regions of the brain, stimulating creativity and problem-solving abilities. It's like a mental workout that not only entertains but also enhances cognitive function." -Dr. David Collins, Neuroscientist
"Integrating humor into challenging situations can reframe perspectives and empower individuals to cope effectively. The ability to find lightness in the darkest moments is a testament to the human spirit's resilience." -Dr. Lisa Thompson, Positive Psychologist
"Humor therapy isn't about denying pain or discomfort; it's about embracing them with a lighter outlook. Laughter serves as a bridge between adversity and resilience, allowing us to navigate life's ups and downs with grace." -Dr. Jonathan Lee, Behavioral Scientist
News Reporters Cant Stop Laughing Bloopers
Monday Sep 18, 2023
Monday Sep 18, 2023
Show Notes:
Join us for a captivating journey into the heart of romantic relationships in our latest episode, "Love and Security: How Attachment Theory Influences Romantic Relationships." Discover the fascinating role attachment theory plays in shaping the way we love and create secure connections with our partners. We'll uncover the various attachment styles that define our behaviors, and explore how our past experiences continue to weave into the tapestry of our present relationships. Whether you're navigating the realms of romance or simply curious about the science of human connection, this episode will unveil the hidden dynamics that fuel our yearnings for love and closeness.
Shine boldly and brightly and enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Costa Rican Retreat Video
Sign up for our Costa Rican Women’s AND men’s Wellness Retreat June 16th-22nd, 2024! There are only 11 spots total for each and spots are filling up quickly. My husband, also a certified therapist, will be running the men’s retreat at a neighboring property. We’re including a variety of excursions like snorkeling, spear fishing, diving, sailing, and surfing, horseback riding, hot springs/mud baths, volcano and waterfall hikes, zip lining, and more. Both excursions include lodging, food, excursions, entertainment, psychoeducation, wellness resources, professional training, needed restoration and an unforgettable experience that will launch you towards becoming your best and most fulfilled self. Grab one of the few spots in this exotic getaway!
Costa Rican Retreat Details
"Attachment science teaches us that beneath our actions and words, we all have a basic human longing: to be loved and understood. Recognizing and addressing this longing is transformative." -Dr. Sue Johnson
"Insecure connections from the past don't have to dictate our present and future relationships. We can rewrite our emotional scripts and develop the skills to create loving, secure bonds."-Sue Johnson
Dr. Dan Siegel: "Our past experiences become templates for our future relationships. But awareness can free us from repeating old patterns."
Dr. Sue Johnson: "In love, we need a secure bond that lets us know we matter, we're valued, and we're not alone."
Dr. Edward Tronick: "The power of healing lies in 'rupture and repair.' Learning to repair the inevitable disconnections in relationships builds resilience and deepens emotional bonds."
Dr. Marion Solomon: "Attachment healing isn't about erasing past wounds; it's about integrating them into our story with compassion. This integration fuels our ability to foster secure connections."
Dr. Diane Poole Heller: "Healing attachment trauma means befriending our own nervous system. Self-regulation and understanding our triggers empower us to co-create secure relationships."
Secure Attachment: Individuals with a secure attachment style feel comfortable exploring their environment, as they trust that their caregiver will be available and responsive when needed. They tend to develop healthy relationships, feeling secure and valued in them.
Anxious-Preoccupied Attachment: People with this style often worry about the consistency of their caregiver's attention and affection. They may become overly dependent and seek constant reassurance in relationships, fearing abandonment.
Avoidant-Dismissive Attachment: Individuals with this style tend to downplay the importance of close relationships and prioritize independence. They may avoid emotional intimacy and find it difficult to express their feelings or needs to others.
Fearful-Avoidant (Disorganized) Attachment: This style combines aspects of both anxious and avoidant attachment. Individuals may desire close relationships but also fear getting hurt. They might experience internal conflicts when seeking intimacy, resulting in unpredictable behaviors.
Hold Me Tight: Dr. Sue Johnson, Sandra Burr: 9781491513811: Amazon.com: Books
Attachment Style Quiz