FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection

135 | The Journey to Self-Compassion: Nurturing Acceptance and Kindness Towards Yourself, with Denise Winkle

Show Notes:
Today you’ll learn actionable tools to start improving your relationship with yourself and learn greater awareness, validation, normalization, and supportive self talk in order cultivate greater self-compassion with fellow Therapist, Denise Winkel! Her simple tools are vital when it comes to progressing and creating greater life fulfillment beginning today!
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Denise Winkel
Facebook Community → https://www.facebook.com/DeniseWinkelCounseling/
Psychology Today →
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/denise-winkel-nampa-id/1195785
 

134 | Ending Summer Strong: Easy Health Hacks for Busy Parents & Families

Show Notes:
 
With simple tips like stocking up on healthy snacks and incorporating mini workouts into daily routines, these 15+ hacks offer busy parents practical ways to prioritize nutrition and movement for themselves and their families. They also incorporate short bursts of physical activity throughout the day to get the whole family moving.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Nutrition Hacks:
Stock up on healthy snacks: Keep a variety of nutritious snacks like cut fruits, veggies, nuts, and yogurt readily available for quick and convenient options. Use yuca app!
Sneak in veggies: Add vegetables to dishes whenever possible, such as blending spinach into smoothies or mixing grated carrots into pasta sauce.
Plan balanced meals: Aim to include a source of protein, healthy fats, complex carbohydrates, and plenty of vegetables in each meal to ensure balanced nutrition. Add more summer produce!
Hydrate consistently: Get several of your favorite water bottles for each family member and put it in main locations!
Opt for whole foods: Choose whole, minimally processed foods over packaged snacks and meals whenever possible to maximize nutrient intake. Start small and make small changes.
Use smaller plates: Serve meals on smaller plates to naturally control portion sizes and prevent overeating. Keep the main food off the table to avoid impulse seconds, or dish up the plates and put it away before sitting down.
Mindful eating: Practice mindful eating by slowing down during meals, chewing food thoroughly, and paying attention to hunger and fullness cues.
Limit added sugars: Reduce consumption of sugary drinks, desserts, and processed snacks to improve overall health and energy levels. Make it a family affair and experiment with sugar free recipes! (chia pudding, healthy mug cakes)
 
Movement Hacks:
Incorporate mini workouts: Break up sedentary periods throughout the day with short bursts of physical activity, such as a 10-minute brisk walk or a set of bodyweight exercises.
Schedule active breaks: Set reminders to take short movement breaks every hour to stretch, walk around, or do a quick workout to boost energy and productivity.
Involve the whole family: Plan active outings or recreational activities that the whole family can enjoy together, such as hiking, biking, or playing outdoor games.
Maximize daily chores: Turn household chores into opportunities for movement by adding extra steps, squats, or lunges while cleaning, cooking, or doing laundry. Make it a fun contest with watches that count steps!
Walk or bike whenever possible: Whenever feasible, choose walking or biking as modes of transportation instead of driving to increase daily physical activity levels.
Prioritize outdoor time: Spend time outdoors every day, whether it's gardening, going for a nature walk, or playing with your kids in the backyard.
Use workout apps or online videos: Stream workouts or follow fitness apps that offer short, effective exercises that can be done at home with minimal equipment.
Make it a social activity: Arrange workout dates with friends or join group fitness classes to stay motivated and accountable while socializing.
Practice active hobbies: Engage in hobbies that involve movement, such as dancing, swimming, gardening, or playing a sport, to make exercise feel more enjoyable and natural.
Focus on consistency: Aim for consistency rather than perfection when it comes to exercise, prioritizing regular movement in your daily routine over intense or lengthy workouts. “No one has time to workout”

133 | Trusting the Conductor: A Journey of Gradual Progression

Show Notes:
Join us as we explore the transformative power of incremental growth and the inspiration drawn from conductors in a choir. We also talk about the guidance of the Savior in our lives, as we learn to strive to become future conductors ourselves and find greater fulfillment.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Quote: 
“...If the green slip of an olive tree is merely planted and allowed to grow, it develops into the wild olive, a bush that grows without control into a tangle of limbs and branches producing only a small, worthless fruit. To become the productive “tame” olive tree, the main stem of the wild tree must be cut back completely and a branch from a tame olive tree grafted into the stem of the wild one. With careful pruning and cultivating, the tree will begin to produce its first fruit in about 7 years, but it will not become fully productive for nearly 15 years. ...The olive tree cannot become productive by itself. ...When [Israel] gave themselves to their God (or their mentor / conductor) for pruning and grafting they prospered & bore much fruit but when they turned from Christ...they became wild and unfruitful.” (Book of Mormon Student Manual)

132 | Letting Go of Comparisons: Embracing Your Non-Traditional Path, with Anjilee Ferguson

Show Notes:
Today we're learning to find peace and acceptance when your path doesn’t look like you hoped by embracing gratitude and humor with Anjilee Ferguson. We'll talk about how to stop comparing our path to others, especially when our path non-traditional, and how to let go of expectations, fears, sadness, and shame in order to move forward and truly believe we’re enough. 
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Contact → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 
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Anjilee Ferguson
Instagram: @anjilee.ferguson
Yes, No, Maybe So: A Comedy of Dating, Divorce, & Devotion: https://www.cedarfort.com/products/yes-no-maybe-so?sca_ref=4164330.qMm3oYgbcw or on Amazon: https://a.co/d/4v06Ke2

131 | Navigating Power Struggles with Teens and Tweens: Building Connection While Setting Boundaries

Show Notes:
Today we're going to discover expert advice and practical tips to maintain connection while setting boundaries, making parenting less stressful and more fulfilling as we navigate power struggles with our tweens and teens. Join us for a journey toward stronger relationships and smoother navigation of family dynamics.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
Quotes:
"When children push against limits, they're asking for connection and reassurance that we're still there for them, even as they try to push us away." - Dr. Laura Markham
"The more you try to control, the more you show your fear; the more you show your fear, the more your child knows how to control you." - Dr. Shefali Tsabary
"The more inflexible you are as a parent, the more oppositional your child is likely to become." - Dr. Ross Greene
 
Actionable Tips:
Practice active listening: Take the time to listen to your teen's perspective without judgment or interruption.
Set aside dedicated one-on-one time: Regularly schedule quality time with your teen to strengthen your connection outside of conflict.
Model healthy conflict resolution: Demonstrate respectful communication and problem-solving skills in your interactions with your teen.
Be consistent with consequences: Follow through on established boundaries and consequences consistently to maintain trust and credibility.
Normalize the human experience, recognize that we all have weaknesses (own them), and then have self-compassion for these challenges. Being a parent is hard work!
Point out the good!’
 
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130 | Breaking Free from Black-and-White Thinking: Navigating Life's Gray Areas with Flexibility

Show Notes:
Today we're talking about how rigid thinking impacts your personal growth and relationships. We'll talk about past trauma, entrenched beliefs, and discover practical tips for increasing your flexibility. Rigid thinking can come up in any and all areas of your life, so join us to expand your mind and change your life to be more fulfilling.
Enjoy!
Kendra
 
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Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
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Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
 
Quotes:
"The measure of intelligence is the ability to change." - Albert Einstein
"Empathy is about finding echoes of another person in yourself." - Mohsin Hamid
 "The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don't know anything about." - Wayne Dyer
 

129 | Unveiling Lasting Happiness: Embracing the Four Pillars of Fulfillment

Show Notes:
Join us today as we discover the keys to lasting happiness by prioritizing faith, family, friends, and meaningful work. We'll also talk about how each of these is an important part of the pursuit of lasting happiness and fulfillment with 5 easy steps to get you started! Don't miss today’s episode if you’re ready to stop sleepwalking through life. 
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 
Facebook Group → Private FB Group 
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
 
Quotes/Speech:
"The only limits to the possibilities in your life tomorrow are the 'buts' you use today." - Les Brown
"Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do." - Mark Twain
"The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Les Brown & Denzel Washington Speech
 

128 | Nature's Playground: Building Family Bonds Through Movement, with Emily Steadman

Show Notes:
Today we're joined by Emily Steadman, a passionate advocate for family play and movement. Emily shares simple yet powerful tips for increasing movement and play, reducing screen time, and igniting deeper family connections, reminding us of the transformative power of play for more fulfilled families. From embracing outdoor adventures to rediscovering the joy of play as adults. Join us as we explore the power of play and creating deeper connections with our loved ones.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 
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Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 
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Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
 
Emily Steadman
https://www.facebook.com/share/a78s5wVrrUisjcmU/?mibextid=WC7FNe

127 | Married Therapists' Secrets to Reconnecting After Marriage Conflict

Show Notes:
Join us today as we explore the power of understanding core values and rewriting narratives in marriage. Drawing from personal experiences, we uncover how understanding core values and reshaping narratives can revitalize marriages, with practical strategies for deeper connection and mutual empathy.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 
Facebook Group → Private FB Group 
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
 
Quotes:
"The quality of your marriage is determined by the quality of your conversations." - John Gottman
"Marriage is not a noun; it's a verb. It isn't something you get. It's something you do. It's the way you love your partner every day." - Barbara De Angelis
"Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry." - Tom Mullen
 

126 | Simple Tips for Breaking Habits that Don’t Serve You: How I Stopped Eating Sugar & Resisted Complacency

Show Notes:
Today we’ll talk about the process of eliminating bad habits and stepping into a life of purpose and fulfillment. Through practical tips we uncover the power of understanding our "why," replacing negative habits with positive ones, and living intuitively according to our core values. As we navigate resistance and pushback from others, we're reminded to embrace our brilliance and shine brightly, unapologetically pursuing greatness. Join us on this journey to break free from the chains of complacency and unlock your true potential.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 
Facebook Group → Private FB Group 
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
 
Here are five simple tips to help break bad habits:
 
Identify the Triggers: Recognize the cues or situations that prompt the habit. Understanding what triggers your behavior can help you anticipate and avoid those situations or develop alternative responses.
Replace with Positive Habits: Instead of simply trying to stop a bad habit, focus on substituting it with a healthier or more productive behavior. For example, if you're trying to quit smoking, replace cigarette breaks with a walk or another activity you enjoy.
Set Clear Goals: Define specific, achievable goals related to breaking the habit. Break down larger goals into smaller, manageable steps, and track your progress along the way. Celebrate your successes to stay motivated.
Create Accountability: Share your goals with supportive friends, family members, or a mentor who can provide encouragement and hold you accountable. Consider joining a support group or finding an accountability partner to help you stay on track.
Practice Self-Compassion: Understand that breaking a habit takes time and effort, and setbacks are a natural part of the process. Be kind to yourself and focus on progress rather than perfection. When you slip up, acknowledge it, learn from it, and recommit to your goals.
 
Quotes:
“Do not go for conformity that breeds mediocrity! Choose instead to stand for transformation that does not only transforms lives, but true purpose and living as well.”
― Ernest Agyemang Yeboah
“Don’t let mediocre people talk you out of your dreams; lions have little in common with sheep.”
― Matshona Dhliwayo
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
- Marianne Williamson
“The tragedy of life is often not in our failure, but rather in our complacency; not in our doing too much, but rather in our doing too little; not in our living above our ability, but rather in our living below our capacities.”-Andy Grove
 
“To avoid enemies, say nothing; to avoid critics, do nothing; to avoid haters, be nothing; but to avoid mediocrity, ignore all.”
― Matshona Dhliwayo
 
“Stumbling towards greatness is better than sprinting towards mediocrity.”
― Matshona Dhliwayo
 
“To be ridiculed for your genius is better than to be praised for your mediocrity.”
― Matshona Dhliwayo
 
“The lonely road to greatness is better than the crowded road to mediocrity.”
― Matshona Dhliwayo