FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection
Hey, Parents! Welcome to Fulfillment Therapy, your space for healing and personal growth, where you can nurture yourselves to enrich your family life. We know the drill - you’re constantly on the hunt for ways to be the best parent and spouse, but it often feels like there’s barely a moment to catch your breath. Balancing your duties, connecting with your kids, and tackling stress can leave you feeling completely exhausted. Mornings start with the best of intentions, but somehow, they often unravel into a whirlwind of arguments with everyone heading in different directions by the day’s end. It’s a stressful cycle, and it’s clear that something is missing. I’m Kendra, a mother and therapist who’s been there before. I’ve learned that to be the best parent you can be, you must prioritize self-care. When you stop ignoring and neglecting your own needs and well-being, you’ll find that you have more energy and less resentment to offer your family. In our relentless pursuit of being super parents, we often forget about the importance of self development and maintaining good mental health, which can lead to anxiety and depression. Balancing the responsibilities of family life while nurturing your personal growth can be difficult. However, it’s essential to become the best version of yourself to be the best parent and spouse. Fulfillment Therapy is about more than just refining your parenting skills; it’s about unlocking your full potential. It’s about rediscovering your values and faith, and creating a safe haven for both you and your family to flourish. In this podcast, we’ll learn tips on reducing stress, overwhelm, and depression, while showing you how to take better care of yourself without neglecting your family and core values. You’ll discover how to advocate for yourself--without shame--and how to nurture your individual worth in sustainable, healthy ways. By replenishing your own cup and meeting your own unmet needs, you can provide more for your family and, most importantly, yourself. We’ll work toward a life where peace, confidence, and a reduced guilt become the norm. You’ll soon discover that your dream of a balanced, joyful life will become your daily reality. It’s time to model healthy self-care, and tap into your unique gifts and talents to make family life more fulfilling than you ever imagined possible. https://fulfillmenttherapy.org Connect → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com Facebook → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/fulfillmenttherapy/
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Thursday Dec 26, 2024
Thursday Dec 26, 2024
Show Notes:
In this episode, we sit down with Lauren Chaitoff, the founder of Yogi Beans, to explore the transformative power of yoga and mindfulness in family life. Lauren shares practical strategies for parents to introduce yoga practices into their daily routines, helping to reduce stress and cultivate emotional balance within the family. Join us for insights on managing the chaos of parenting while nurturing your own well-being and that of your children.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
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https://yogibeans.com/
https://www.instagram.com/yogi_beans/
Monday Dec 23, 2024
Monday Dec 23, 2024
Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore ways to rediscover the wonder, joy, and peace of Christmas amidst the holiday hustle. Join us to find practical tips for creating meaningful family traditions that foster connection without overwhelming stress. I also discuss the importance of simplicity and service, encouraging families to engage in small acts of kindness that can transform the holiday experience. I also reflect on the true spirit of Christmas and share ideas to make this season memorable for both parents and children.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
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Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
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Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
"The joy of brightening other lives, bearing each others' burdens, easing others' loads and supplanting empty hearts and lives with generous gifts becomes for us the magic of the holidays." - W. C. Jones
“The celebration of Christmas helps us keep our promise to always remember Him and His gifts to us. And that remembrance creates a desire in us to give gifts to Him." - Henry B. Eyring
“As we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ this season, let us also celebrate all that His birth symbolizes, especially the love." - Bonnie L. Oscarson
Thursday Dec 19, 2024
Thursday Dec 19, 2024
Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore powerful strategies for healing resentments and strengthening marriages with Dr. Wyatt Fisher, an experienced couples therapist. Dr. Fisher introduces three key tools: the REUNITE method for addressing resentments, the Bullseye Question for daily relationship maintenance, and the Diamond model for managing conflicts. We also discuss the importance of balancing self-care with family needs and how improving your marriage positively impacts your entire family dynamic.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Dr.Wyatt’s links: info@drwyattfisher.com, https://www.drwyattfisher.com/pages/marriage-podcast-marriage-steps
Monday Dec 16, 2024
Monday Dec 16, 2024
Show Notes:
Today my sister and I dive deep into the complexities of faith, doubt, and personal growth. We talk about how to navigate spiritual journeys while maintaining family connections, while hoping to offer valuable insights for parents supporting their children's faith explorations. The conversation touches on finding peace in uncertainty, embracing imperfection in faith, and creating space for questions and doubts. This episode provides a relatable and honest discussion for overwhelmed parents looking to improve their mental health and family relationships.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
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Thursday Dec 12, 2024
Thursday Dec 12, 2024
Show Notes:
Our courses launch Jan. 1, 2025, so put that on your calenders!!
In this episode, we tackle the tough topic of managing challenging child behavior with expert advice on setting boundaries, practicing positive reinforcement, and maintaining calm communication. Learn how these strategies can transform chaos into cooperation while nurturing both your child's growth and your own well-being as a parent.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
Quotes:
Dr. Kevin Leman says, "Rules without relationship lead to rebellion."
Dr. Daniel Siegel's words: "Where attention goes, neural firing flows, and neural connection grows."
Dr. Ross Greene reminds us, "Kids do well if they can."
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Monday Dec 09, 2024
Monday Dec 09, 2024
Show Notes:
Hey friends! Today we explore the transformative power of differentiation in family life with returning guest, Kensi Evans. Learn how maintaining your individuality while staying connected to your loved ones can lead to a healthier home and greater personal fulfillment. Discover strategies for setting healthy boundaries, nurturing your passions, and modeling self-care for your children. This conversation is a must-listen for any parent looking to break free from burnout and create a thriving family dynamic.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
"Differentiation deals with working on one's own self, with controlling self, with becoming a more responsible person, and permitting others to be themselves."
- Murray Bowen
"The real problem is that the partners in a difficult relations are 'no-selfs.' Too much of each self has been absorbed into the relationship." - Roberta M. Gilbert
TIPS:
Get to know yourself: Take a minute to figure out what makes you tick. Why do you get annoyed when your partner leaves dishes in the sink? Understanding your own quirks can help you chill out in tricky situations.
Keep it one-on-one: When you're mad at your partner, don't run to your mom or bestie to vent. Try to work it out with your partner directly. It's tempting to get others on your side, but it usually makes things messier.
Spot the family reruns: Notice if your family has a "greatest hits" of arguments or behaviors. Maybe everyone clams up when things get tense, just like grandma used to do. Spotting these patterns is the first step to changing them.
Be your own emotional DJ: Learn to turn down your own stress levels without relying on others to calm you down. It's like being able to soothe yourself instead of always needing a hug from mom.
Give people space to be themselves: Remember that your partner or kids aren't extensions of you. Let them have their own thoughts and feelings, even if you don't agree. Focus on managing your own reactions instead of trying to control theirs.
Thursday Dec 05, 2024
Thursday Dec 05, 2024
Show Notes:
In this eye-opening episode, relationship and sexuality expert Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins us to discuss the often overlooked impact of trauma on intimate relationships. We explore topics such as recognizing trauma responses, understanding dissociation, and navigating the complex emotions that arise during intimacy. Dr. Finlayson-Fife offers valuable insights and practical strategies for couples looking to heal, reconnect, and build a fulfilling sex life that respects individual healing journeys.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
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Contact → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Jennifer's Links:
www.finlayson-fife.com/courses
@finlaysonfife (Instagram)
@finlaysonfife (Facebook)
Monday Dec 02, 2024
Monday Dec 02, 2024
Show Notes:
In today’s episode, Dr. Harry Cohen delves into the transformative power of addressing pet peeves with a positive mindset. Discover how reframing irritations can lead to personal growth and create a ripple effect of kindness in your relationships. Learn practical strategies for pausing before reacting, choosing words that uplift, and embracing the lessons hidden within everyday annoyances. By practicing grace and gratitude, you can foster a more joyful environment for yourself and those around you, ultimately becoming a beacon of light in a sometimes salty world.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Dr. Harry Cohen’s Links:
https://bethesunnotthesalt.com
https://www.youtube.com/@BetheSunNottheSalt/videos
https://www.instagram.com/bethesunnotthesalt/
Thursday Nov 28, 2024
Thursday Nov 28, 2024
Show Notes:
In this episode, we dive deep into the world of mental health and wellness with coach and personal trainer Michele Riechman. We learn how to identify and fulfill our unmet needs, overcome challenges, and achieve greater fulfillment in life while balancing family responsibilities. Michele and I share practical tips for self-care, setting boundaries, and breaking free from unhealthy patterns that hold us back. This episode is perfect for overwhelmed parents looking to improve their mental health and teach their families the power of self-improvement.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Michele Riechman:
https://www.micheleriechman.com/podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/healthy-beyond-40-lose-weight-healthier-habits-healthy/id1674457782
https://www.facebook.com/healthybeyond40/
Monday Nov 25, 2024
Monday Nov 25, 2024
Show Notes:
Today we’ll be learning about the critical role of boundaries in managing holiday stress and improving family dynamics. We explore the nature of boundaries, provide strategies for clear communication, and give easy tips for setting and maintaining limits during family gatherings. Gain the tools to create a more balanced and enjoyable holiday experience, leading to reduced overwhelm and improved personal well-being.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
Family Holiday Boundaries Worksheet
Understanding Boundaries
A boundary is a limit or rule you set for yourself in relationships. It defines what behavior you will or won't accept from others, and how you'll respond. Boundaries are not:
Threats or ultimatums
Ways to control others
Punishments
Boundaries differ from consequences in that:
Boundaries are rules you set for yourself
Consequences are actions you take when boundaries are crossed
Step 1: Identify Your Needs and Limits
Reflect on past family holiday experiences. List 3-5 situations that caused you stress or discomfort:
Step 2: Define Your Boundaries
For each situation, write a clear, simple boundary statement using "I" language:
I will...
I won't...
I need...
I don't want...
It's not okay for...
Step 3: Communicate Your Boundaries
Practice expressing your boundaries calmly and directly. Write how you'll communicate each:
Step 4: Plan for Enforcement
For each boundary, decide on a consequence if it's not respected:
If [boundary] is crossed, I will...
If [boundary] is crossed, I will...
If [boundary] is crossed, I will...
If [boundary] is crossed, I will...
If [boundary] is crossed, I will...
Step 5: Self-Care Strategies
List 3 self-care activities you can do during family gatherings to maintain your boundaries:
Step 6: Positive Affirmations
Write 3 positive affirmations to remind yourself of the importance of your boundaries:
I have the right to...
My needs are important because...
Setting boundaries helps me...
Remember, setting and maintaining boundaries is a skill that takes practice. Be patient with yourself as you implement these changes
Quotes:
"No is a complete sentence." - Anne Lamott
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests