FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection
Hey, Parents! Welcome to Fulfillment Therapy, your space for healing and personal growth, where you can nurture yourselves to enrich your family life.
We know the drill - you’re constantly on the hunt for ways to be the best parent and spouse, but it often feels like there’s barely a moment to catch your breath. Balancing your duties, connecting with your kids, and tackling stress can leave you feeling completely exhausted. Mornings start with the best of intentions, but somehow, they often unravel into a whirlwind of arguments with everyone heading in different directions by the day’s end. It’s a stressful cycle, and it’s clear that something is missing.
I’m Kendra, a mother and therapist who’s been there before. I’ve learned that to be the best parent you can be, you must prioritize self-care. When you stop ignoring and neglecting your own needs and well-being, you’ll find that you have more energy and less resentment to offer your family. In our relentless pursuit of being super parents, we often forget about the importance of self development and maintaining good mental health, which can lead to anxiety and depression.
Balancing the responsibilities of family life while nurturing your personal growth can be difficult. However, it’s essential to become the best version of yourself to be the best parent and spouse. Fulfillment Therapy is about more than just refining your parenting skills; it’s about unlocking your full potential. It’s about rediscovering your values and faith, and creating a safe haven for both you and your family to flourish.
In this podcast, we’ll learn tips on reducing stress, overwhelm, and depression, while showing you how to take better care of yourself without neglecting your family and core values. You’ll discover how to advocate for yourself--without shame--and how to nurture your individual worth in sustainable, healthy ways. By replenishing your own cup and meeting your own unmet needs, you can provide more for your family and, most importantly, yourself. We’ll work toward a life where peace, confidence, and a reduced guilt become the norm. You’ll soon discover that your dream of a balanced, joyful life will become your daily reality. It’s time to model healthy self-care, and tap into your unique gifts and talents to make family life more fulfilling than you ever imagined possible.
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Episodes
Thursday Sep 11, 2025
Thursday Sep 11, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, I am a guest on Alicia Rose’s podcast and I share science-backed strategies for parents struggling to prioritize self-care. Learn how to implement "tiny habits" (backed by James Clear’s Atomic Habits), conduct a personal joy audit, and set non-negotiable boundaries that model resilience for kids. We also break down my "twofer" method for combining parenting wins with self-renewal, offers a journaling framework to identify what makes your "soul sing," and explains why letting go of martyrdom creates healthier families. Perfect for parents seeking practical ways to balance mental wellness with family growth.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Monday Sep 08, 2025
Monday Sep 08, 2025
Show Notes:
As parents, we often struggle with finding the right balance between supporting our family and giving them the space to grow. Enabling behaviors, though well-intentioned, can lead to resentment and hinder personal growth. By understanding the difference between enabling and empowering, you can create a healthier family dynamic that fosters strength and confidence. Join us as we explore practical strategies for empowering your family and improving your mental health and wellness.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
As Dr. Harville Hendrix notes, "The most powerful thing you can do for another person is to help them find their own strength".
As Melody Beattie says, "Letting go helps us to live in a more peaceful state of mind and helps restore our balance".
Thursday Sep 04, 2025
Thursday Sep 04, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore how shame and attachment to external validation drain us. Drawing from Brené Brown’s shame resilience research, Buddhist philosophy on detachment, and Kristin Neff’s self-compassion work, we unpack practical strategies to shift from “attachment energy” to “trust energy.” Listeners will learn to recognize shame’s physical warning signs, reframe comparison traps, and cultivate a family culture where mistakes spark growth. We reveal how small, daily practices like “Oops Parties” and mindful pauses can rebuild authentic connections. Perfect for parents seeking mental wellness tools that stick.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
Pema Chödrön says: "We already have everything we need. There is no need for self-improvement. All these trips that we lay on ourselves—the heavy-duty fearing that we're bad and hoping that we're good, the identities that we so dearly cling to, the rage, the jealousy and the addictions of all kinds—never touch our basic wealth."
Dr. Gabor Maté offers this insight: "Children don't need perfect parents. They need parents who can say 'I'm lost too — let's find the map together'."
Kristin Neff, a pioneer in self-compassion research, states: "With self-compassion, we give ourselves the same kindness and care we'd give to a good friend."
Monday Sep 01, 2025
Monday Sep 01, 2025
Show Notes:
Differentiation is a powerful tool that helps parents maintain emotional balance and resilience, even in the most challenging family situations. By understanding and applying differentiation, you can create a healthier dynamic with your children, create a more peaceful and supportive home environment. This concept, rooted in psychological theories, empowers you to stay grounded and centered, resisting the contagiousness of others' anxiety. Join us as we explore practical strategies for integrating differentiation into your daily parenting life.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Denise’s links:
Denise Winkel, LPC
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/denise-winkel-nampa-id/1195785
Denisewinkelcounseling@gmail.com
Thursday Aug 28, 2025
Thursday Aug 28, 2025
Show Notes:
As a parent, finding time for personal growth, family bonding, and career fulfillment can feel like an impossible task. However, by applying the principles from "The 4-Hour Workweek," you can break free from overwhelm and create a life that truly aligns with your priorities. This episode explores how lifestyle design, the Pareto Principle, automation, mini-retirements, and location independence can transform your life, enhancing your mental health and wellness while fostering deeper family connections. By learning these strategies, you can create a more balanced and fulfilling life.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
As Heather Schuck notes, "You will never feel truly satisfied by work until you are satisfied by life".
As Jane Park says, "When I think about work-life balance, I don't imagine it as a perfect day... but over the course of a month, or a quarter, or a year, I try to make time for the people and experiences I value".
Monday Aug 25, 2025
Monday Aug 25, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore the transformative power of meditation for parents seeking mental wellness and family harmony. Discover how creating space for stillness can unlock your intuition, leading to profound insights about yourself and your children. Learn practical techniques to incorporate mindfulness into your daily routine, even amidst the chaos of family life. Whether you're struggling with parenting challenges or simply seeking greater fulfillment, this episode offers a roadmap to finding peace and wisdom within.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
Dr. Marcia Reynolds, a leadership coach, says, "Intuition is a gift that we all have; the more we pay attention to it, the stronger it becomes."
Elder David A. Bednar, an LDS leader, explains revelation like this: "Sometimes revelation comes in an instant, like flipping on a light switch. But more often, it comes gradually, like a sunrise."
For those who aren't religious, Carl Jung, the famous psychologist, offers a similar perspective: "Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes."
Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn, the creator of Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, puts it this way: "The little things? The little moments? They aren't little."
Thursday Aug 21, 2025
Thursday Aug 21, 2025
Show Notes:
Birthdays often bring a whirlwind of emotions, particularly for parents juggling family expectations and personal reflections. In this episode, we explore how to reframe birthdays as a "personal New Year," offering a fresh perspective on self-growth and family connections. Discover practical strategies to overcome birthday anxiety, cultivate gratitude, and use your special day as a catalyst for positive change. Whether you're a birthday enthusiast or someone who dreads the annual milestone, this conversation will inspire you to embrace the transformative power of birthdays for enhanced mental wellness and life fulfillment.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Tamar’s Links:
HowToHaveAHappyBirthday.com
https://www.amazon.com/How-Have-Happy-Birthday-Fulfillment-ebook/dp/B0CNL929C9
Monday Aug 18, 2025
Monday Aug 18, 2025
Show Notes:
In this powerful episode of Fulfillment Therapy, we tackle the challenging topic of abuse and its lasting impact on families. Drawing from expert insights and personal experiences, we explore how to recognize signs of abuse, understand its long-term effects, and begin a journey of healing. You will gain valuable strategies for breaking the cycle of trauma, building resilience, and fostering healthier family relationships. This episode offers hope and practical guidance for parents seeking to overcome past traumas and create a nurturing environment for your children.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
I want to begin with a poem from the movie Antwone Fisher that resonates with many who have experienced abuse:
"Who will cry for the little boy?
Lost and all alone.
Who will cry for the little boy?
Abandoned without his own?
Who will cry for the little boy?
He cried himself to sleep.
Who will cry for the little boy?
He never had for keeps."
Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, a leading trauma expert, states: "The body keeps the score: If the trauma memory isn't processed, it continues to play out in the body."
Psychologist Dr. Peter Levine reminds us: "Trauma is a fact of life. It does not, however, have to be a life sentence."
Dr. Maya Angelou, a survivor herself, beautifully stated: "You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it."
Thursday Aug 14, 2025
Thursday Aug 14, 2025
Show Notes:
Are you a parent feeling stuck in a never-ending cycle of daily routines, longing for more fulfillment but unsure where to start? In this eye-opening episode of Fulfillment Therapy, I revel some game-changing strategies for breaking free from parental burnout and reigniting your zest for life. Discover how small, consistent actions can lead to significant personal growth without sacrificing your family's needs. From adopting a growth mindset to finding energy when you're running on empty, I share practical tips that will transform your approach to self-care, mental wellness, and family dynamics.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
Monica Packer wisely said, "The opposite of perfectionism isn't stopping. It's moving forward in a different way where that sense of self is the compass."
James Clear notes, "The most effective way to change your habits is to focus not on what you want to achieve, but on who you wish to become."
Dr. Dweck explains, "The passion for stretching yourself and sticking to it, even (or especially) when it's not going well, is the hallmark of the growth mindset."
Monday Aug 11, 2025
Monday Aug 11, 2025
Show Notes:
This episode explores the Good Daughter Syndrome, a common pattern where people, especially daughters of narcissistic mothers, struggle with setting boundaries and prioritizing their own needs. By understanding and addressing these dynamics, parents can improve their mental health and wellness, leading to more fulfilling personal and family lives. We discuss practical steps towards healing, including recognizing unconscious agreements and setting small boundaries. By tuning in, you'll gain insights into transforming your relationships and enhancing your overall well-being.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Katherine’s links:
https://daughtersrising.info/
https://www.facebook.com/thegooddaughter/
https://www.instagram.com/katherinefabrizio/
https://www.tiktok.com/@katherine.fabrizio
https://www.youtube.com/@kkfabrizio/about
https://www.amazon.com/Good-Daughter-Syndrome-Narcissistic-Borderline/dp/B0C9G4MZJY