FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection

223 | Emotional Intelligence at Home: Building Stronger Bonds with Your Spouse and Kids

Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore the crucial role of interpersonal intelligence in family dynamics. Learn how to recognize the right moments to address issues with your spouse and children, and discover practical strategies for improving family communication. From active listening techniques to the power of empathy, this episode provides valuable insights to help you create stronger, more fulfilling relationships within your family.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Quotes:
 Stephen Covey: "Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply."
As Maya Angelou wisely said, "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."
Daniel Goleman, a pioneer in emotional intelligence research, states, "If your emotional abilities aren't in hand, if you don't have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can't have empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far."

222 | Breaking Free from Perfectionism: A Parent's Guide to Progress, with Monica Packer

Show Notes:
In this enlightening episode, we explore the impact of perfectionism on parenting and personal growth. Our guest, Monica Packer, shares her journey from perfectionist to progress-maker, offering valuable insights on embracing imperfection and finding fulfillment in the parenting journey. Learn practical strategies for overcoming perfectionist tendencies, fostering strength in yourself and your children, and cultivating a growth mindset that leads to lasting positive change.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Monica Packer’s Links:
www.aboutprogress.com

221 | The Power of Small Changes: Boosting Parent Mental Health & Wellness

Show Notes:
In this episode, we delve into practical wellness strategies for busy parents looking to improve their mental and physical health. We discuss 10 simple exercise hacks that can be easily incorporated into daily routines, along with 10 diet tips for better nutrition. We also explore the connection between physical wellness and mental health, and I offer inspiration from well-known figures who've successfully balanced health with busy lives.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Quotes:
As Greg Anderson said, 'Wellness is the complete integration of body, mind, and spirit.'
John F. Kennedy said, 'Physical fitness is not only one of the most important keys to a healthy body; it is the basis of dynamic and creative intellectual activity.
Mark Hyman’s words: 'Food is medicine.' Every bite is an opportunity to nourish yourself.’
Will Durant: 'We are what we repeatedly do.' Wellness isn’t about perfection; it’s about consistency."
Jim Rohn said: 'Take care of your body; it’s the only place you have to live.' Start small today—your future self will thank you!"

220 | Nurturing Hope: A Parent's Guide to Supporting Struggling Loved Ones

Show Notes:
In this episode, we talk about the challenges we face when supporting struggling loved ones. We explore the power of personal transformation through real-life examples and discuss strategies for letting go without giving up. Learn how to maintain hope, practice unconditional love, and create a supportive environment that fosters growth and positive change in your family. Discover practical tips for balancing self-care with family support and cultivating strength in both yourself and your loved ones.
 
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Quotes:
Viktor Frankl once said, "When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves."
Eckhart Tolle: "Sometimes letting things go is an act of far greater power than defending or hanging on."
Michelle Obama wisely said, "You may not always have a comfortable life and you will not always be able to solve all of the world's problems at once but don't ever underestimate the importance you can have because history has shown us that courage can be contagious and hope can take on a life of its own."
 

219 | Deliberate Play: Revolutionizing How We Learn and Grow Together

Show Notes:
In this episode, we delve into the crucial distinction between obsession and passion in parenting and personal growth. We explore the concepts of deliberate play, flow states, and interweaving, offering practical strategies for parents to avoid burnout and boreout. Learn how to cultivate activities that energize and fulfill you, enhancing both your parenting skills and personal well-being.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Quotes:
Dr. Robert Vallerand, a leading researcher on passion, distinguishes between two types of passion: obsessive and harmonious. He explains:
"Harmonious passion refers to a strong inclination to engage in the activity willingly and with a sense of volition. Obsessive passion, in contrast, refers to an uncontrollable urge to engage in the activity."
Dr. Philippe Rothlin, who coined the term "boreout," says: "Boreout is a growing phenomenon. It occurs when an employee is unmotivated by their tasks and has lost all enthusiasm for their work."
As Adam Grant puts it: "Rest is a supply of fuel. We take regular breaks to maintain energy and avoid burnout. Relaxing isn't a waste of time. It's an investment in wellbeing. Breaks aren't a distraction. They're a chance to reset attention and incubate ideas. Play isn't a frivolous activity. It's a source of joy."
 

218 | Breaking the Roommate Cycle: Reconnecting with Your Spouse

Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore the all too familiar feeling of being like roommates instead of romantic partners in marriage, especially for busy parents. We discuss the signs of this "roommate phase" and offer practical strategies to reconnect, including prioritizing quality time, improving communication, sparking novelty back into the relationship, and rebuilding intimacy. We also share actionable tips to nurture your marriage and reignite the romantic spark.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org 
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YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos 
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Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
 
Quotes:
Mignon McLaughlin: "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."
Patricia Love wisely said, "The deepest moments of intimacy occur when you're not talking."
Dr. John Gottman puts it, "Every positive thing you do in your relationship is foreplay."
Jackson Brown Jr.: "Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own."
Anne Morrow Lindbergh: "When you love someone, you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of the tide and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return."

217 | Overcoming Religious Perfectionism: A Parent's Guide

Show Notes:
In this episode, we delve into the complex relationship between religiosity and family well-being. We explore how excessive religious devotion can sometimes hinder personal growth and family dynamics, and offer practical strategies for maintaining a healthy balance. You will learn how to recognize signs of problematic religiosity, develop self-awareness, and create a more flexible and fulfilling approach to faith that enhances both personal and family life.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Quotes:
"The first principle is that you must not fool yourself – and you are the easiest person to fool." - Richard Feynman
"The most powerful weapon against extremism is moderation." - Queen Rania of Jordan
"Pride makes us artificial and humility makes us real." - Thomas Merton

216 | Navigating Sexual Intimacy in Midlife Marriages, with Dan Purcell

Show Notes:
In this enlightening episode, we explore the complexities of marital intimacy with sex and intimacy coach Dan Purcell. Dan shares his personal journey of transforming his marriage and offers valuable insights on bridging the libido gap, improving communication, and rediscovering joy in your sex life. Learn about the three stages of sexual development in marriage and practical strategies for creating a more fulfilling intimate relationship, especially for busy parents.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Dan Purcell's Links:
 
Dan Purcell’s Website: https://getyourmarriageon.com
Instagram: https://instagram.com/getyourmarriageon
Podcast: Get Your Marriage On

215 | Turning Setbacks into Comebacks: Embracing Your Personal Temple Prison

Show Notes:
In this episode, we delve into the concept of hidden potential and how embracing discomfort can lead to personal and family growth. We discuss practical strategies for parents to seek out challenging situations, reframe discomfort as progress, and create a supportive environment for learning. You'll discover how to set achievable goals, practice new skills, and unlock the hidden potential within yourself and your children.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
 
Quotes:
As Carl Honoré said, "The great benefit of slowing down is reclaiming the time and tranquility to make meaningful connections—with people, with culture, with work, with nature".
Alan Watts' wisdom: "There is no hurry... It is all here—so take it easy, take your time".
Thich Nhat Hanh beautifully reminds us: "The most precious gift we can offer others is our presence. When mindfulness embraces those we love, they will bloom like flowers".
As Mae West said: "Anything worth doing is worth doing slowly".
Walter Hagen's words resonate here: "You're only here for a short visit. Don't hurry, don't worry. And be sure to smell the flowers along the way".
 

214 | The Power of Awkward: How Embracing Imperfection Boosts Family Growth

Show Notes:
In this episode, we delve into the subtle ways we can embrace the awkward. Life is hard, but it is also so beautiful when we step into our fullest selves by growing. As parents, we especially need to to tap into our own growth mindset, whether that’s trying something new and not being afraid of failure, learning something alongside our kids, or taking up a new hobby with friends. You can do this, we can do this!
 
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
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Quotes:
"If you're comfortable, you're doing it wrong," says psychologist Ted Lasso
"The only way to grow is to get out of your comfort zone," as Zig Ziglar 
Carol Dweck, the pioneer of growth mindset research, reminds us, "No matter what your ability is, effort is what ignites that ability and turns it into accomplishment"
Kristin Lohr puts it, "Growth is uncomfortable because you've never been here before – you've never been this version of you. So give yourself a little grace and breathe through it"
Nelson Mandela: "There is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living"