FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection
Hey, Parents! Welcome to Fulfillment Therapy, your space for healing and personal growth, where you can nurture yourselves to enrich your family life. We know the drill - you’re constantly on the hunt for ways to be the best parent and spouse, but it often feels like there’s barely a moment to catch your breath. Balancing your duties, connecting with your kids, and tackling stress can leave you feeling completely exhausted. Mornings start with the best of intentions, but somehow, they often unravel into a whirlwind of arguments with everyone heading in different directions by the day’s end. It’s a stressful cycle, and it’s clear that something is missing. I’m Kendra, a mother and therapist who’s been there before. I’ve learned that to be the best parent you can be, you must prioritize self-care. When you stop ignoring and neglecting your own needs and well-being, you’ll find that you have more energy and less resentment to offer your family. In our relentless pursuit of being super parents, we often forget about the importance of self development and maintaining good mental health, which can lead to anxiety and depression. Balancing the responsibilities of family life while nurturing your personal growth can be difficult. However, it’s essential to become the best version of yourself to be the best parent and spouse. Fulfillment Therapy is about more than just refining your parenting skills; it’s about unlocking your full potential. It’s about rediscovering your values and faith, and creating a safe haven for both you and your family to flourish. In this podcast, we’ll learn tips on reducing stress, overwhelm, and depression, while showing you how to take better care of yourself without neglecting your family and core values. You’ll discover how to advocate for yourself--without shame--and how to nurture your individual worth in sustainable, healthy ways. By replenishing your own cup and meeting your own unmet needs, you can provide more for your family and, most importantly, yourself. We’ll work toward a life where peace, confidence, and a reduced guilt become the norm. You’ll soon discover that your dream of a balanced, joyful life will become your daily reality. It’s time to model healthy self-care, and tap into your unique gifts and talents to make family life more fulfilling than you ever imagined possible. https://fulfillmenttherapy.org Connect → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com Facebook → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/fulfillmenttherapy/
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59 minutes ago
59 minutes ago
Show Notes:
In this episode, we address the challenges of parenting a defiant child and offer practical strategies for managing difficult behavior. We explore the importance of empowering children through choices, validating emotions, and setting clear boundaries. Expert insights on family dynamics and maintaining balance are shared, along with book recommendations for further support. You will gain valuable tools to create a more loving family environment and help your child develop better emotional regulation skills.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Books:
"Parenting the Strong-Willed Child" by Rex Forehand and Nicholas Long
"The Explosive Child" by Ross W. Greene
"Setting Limits with Your Strong-Willed Child" by Robert J. Mackenzie
"Overcoming Parental Anxiety" by Debra Kissen
"The Gift of a Happy Mother: Letting Go of Perfection and Embracing Everyday Joy" by Rebecca Eanes
"How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk" by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
Quotes:
Dr. Ross Greene, clinical child psychologist, states: "The kids who need love the most will ask for it in the most unloving ways."
Dr. Daniel Siegel, clinical professor of psychiatry, advises: "The goal isn't to win the argument or prove you're right. The goal is to connect and solve problems together."
John Gottman emphasizes: "The greatest gift you can give your child is a strong relationship between you and your partner."
4 days ago
4 days ago
Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore codependency in marriage and its impact on family life. We discuss common signs of codependency, including excessive caretaking, difficulty setting boundaries, and fear of abandonment. This episode offers practical strategies for breaking codependent patterns, such as developing self-awareness, setting healthy boundaries, and prioritizing self-care!
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
Dr. Sheri Jacobson, a psychotherapist, emphasizes: "Recovery from codependency involves learning to love yourself first, which then allows for healthier relationships with others."
Thursday Jun 19, 2025
Thursday Jun 19, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore the Drama Triangle, a powerful model that explains dysfunctional family dynamics. We discuss how parents and children often fall into roles of Victim, Persecutor, and Rescuer, creating cycles of conflict and stress. Learn practical strategies to break free from these patterns and shift towards more empowering roles that foster growth, connection, and well-being. Discover how understanding and applying these concepts can lead to a more loving and fulfilling family life.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Understanding the Drama Triangle
The Drama Triangle, developed by Dr. Stephen Karpman, is a social model that describes three habitual roles people play in stressful or conflict situations1. These roles are:
The Victim: Feels powerless and at the mercy of circumstances
The Persecutor (or Villain): Blames and criticizes others
The Rescuer (or Hero): Swoops in to save the day, often enabling the victim
Quotes:
"The Drama Triangle is a model of dysfunctional social interaction. Each player in the triangle has their own beliefs and behaviors that reinforce the problem rather than resolve it." - Dr. Stephen Karpman
"The Empowerment Dynamic offers an antidote to the Drama Triangle. It's about moving from a reactive stance to a creative orientation." - David Emerald
"The quality of our lives depends not on whether or not we have conflicts, but on how we respond to them." - Thomas Crum
Monday Jun 16, 2025
Monday Jun 16, 2025
Show Notes:
In this eye-opening episode, we explore the powerful connection between personal style and confidence with Heather Riggs. From quick style hacks that can transform your day to building a signature look that commands respect in professional settings, we'll uncover how your wardrobe choices can significantly impact your mental wellness and family dynamics. Whether you're a busy mom or dad feeling stuck in a style rut or simply looking to boost your confidence, join us to help you look and feel your best while navigating the challenges of parenthood.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Heather Riggs:
HER Style Podcast
IG - https://www.instagram.com/heatherriggsstyle/
FB - https://herstylellc.com/community
Free Personal Style Quiz - https://herstylellc.com/quiz
support@herstylellc.com
Thursday Jun 12, 2025
Thursday Jun 12, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore strategies for encouraging follow-through in family life without resorting to nagging. Learn how to use assertive communication techniques, set clear expectations, and empower family members through choices and collaboration. Discover the impact of letting go of perfection and focusing on what truly matters in building cooperative relationships!
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
Brené Brown, research professor and author, reminds us: "Imperfections are not inadequacies; they are reminders that we're all in this together."
Dr. Robert Alberti, psychologist and author, states: "Assertiveness is not what you do, it's who you are!"
Monday Jun 09, 2025
Monday Jun 09, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode of Fulfillment Therapy, Kendra Nielson explores strategies for creating a meaningful and connected summer for both parents and children. She shares practical tips for being more present, limiting screen time, and fostering family bonds through creative activities and traditions. Kendra also discusses the importance of balancing structure with spontaneity and provides ideas for nurturing individual growth within the family context. Listeners will come away with actionable steps to transform their summer into a season of personal wellness and family fulfillment.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
Thich Nhat Hanh once said, "The present moment is filled with joy and happiness. If you are attentive, you will see it."
As Anne Lamott wisely put it, "Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you."
Monday Jun 09, 2025
Monday Jun 09, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore the crucial role of interpersonal intelligence in family dynamics. Learn how to recognize the right moments to address issues with your spouse and children, and discover practical strategies for improving family communication. From active listening techniques to the power of empathy, this episode provides valuable insights to help you create stronger, more fulfilling relationships within your family.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
Stephen Covey: "Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply."
As Maya Angelou wisely said, "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."
Daniel Goleman, a pioneer in emotional intelligence research, states, "If your emotional abilities aren't in hand, if you don't have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can't have empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far."
Monday Jun 02, 2025
Monday Jun 02, 2025
Show Notes:
In this enlightening episode, we explore the impact of perfectionism on parenting and personal growth. Our guest, Monica Packer, shares her journey from perfectionist to progress-maker, offering valuable insights on embracing imperfection and finding fulfillment in the parenting journey. Learn practical strategies for overcoming perfectionist tendencies, fostering strength in yourself and your children, and cultivating a growth mindset that leads to lasting positive change.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Monica Packer’s Links:
www.aboutprogress.com
Thursday May 29, 2025
Thursday May 29, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we delve into practical wellness strategies for busy parents looking to improve their mental and physical health. We discuss 10 simple exercise hacks that can be easily incorporated into daily routines, along with 10 diet tips for better nutrition. We also explore the connection between physical wellness and mental health, and I offer inspiration from well-known figures who've successfully balanced health with busy lives.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
As Greg Anderson said, 'Wellness is the complete integration of body, mind, and spirit.'
John F. Kennedy said, 'Physical fitness is not only one of the most important keys to a healthy body; it is the basis of dynamic and creative intellectual activity.
Mark Hyman’s words: 'Food is medicine.' Every bite is an opportunity to nourish yourself.’
Will Durant: 'We are what we repeatedly do.' Wellness isn’t about perfection; it’s about consistency."
Jim Rohn said: 'Take care of your body; it’s the only place you have to live.' Start small today—your future self will thank you!"
Monday May 26, 2025
Monday May 26, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we talk about the challenges we face when supporting struggling loved ones. We explore the power of personal transformation through real-life examples and discuss strategies for letting go without giving up. Learn how to maintain hope, practice unconditional love, and create a supportive environment that fosters growth and positive change in your family. Discover practical tips for balancing self-care with family support and cultivating strength in both yourself and your loved ones.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
Viktor Frankl once said, "When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves."
Eckhart Tolle: "Sometimes letting things go is an act of far greater power than defending or hanging on."
Michelle Obama wisely said, "You may not always have a comfortable life and you will not always be able to solve all of the world's problems at once but don't ever underestimate the importance you can have because history has shown us that courage can be contagious and hope can take on a life of its own."