FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection
Hey, Parents! Welcome to Fulfillment Therapy, your space for healing and personal growth, where you can nurture yourselves to enrich your family life. We know the drill - you’re constantly on the hunt for ways to be the best parent and spouse, but it often feels like there’s barely a moment to catch your breath. Balancing your duties, connecting with your kids, and tackling stress can leave you feeling completely exhausted. Mornings start with the best of intentions, but somehow, they often unravel into a whirlwind of arguments with everyone heading in different directions by the day’s end. It’s a stressful cycle, and it’s clear that something is missing. I’m Kendra, a mother and therapist who’s been there before. I’ve learned that to be the best parent you can be, you must prioritize self-care. When you stop ignoring and neglecting your own needs and well-being, you’ll find that you have more energy and less resentment to offer your family. In our relentless pursuit of being super parents, we often forget about the importance of self development and maintaining good mental health, which can lead to anxiety and depression. Balancing the responsibilities of family life while nurturing your personal growth can be difficult. However, it’s essential to become the best version of yourself to be the best parent and spouse. Fulfillment Therapy is about more than just refining your parenting skills; it’s about unlocking your full potential. It’s about rediscovering your values and faith, and creating a safe haven for both you and your family to flourish. In this podcast, we’ll learn tips on reducing stress, overwhelm, and depression, while showing you how to take better care of yourself without neglecting your family and core values. You’ll discover how to advocate for yourself--without shame--and how to nurture your individual worth in sustainable, healthy ways. By replenishing your own cup and meeting your own unmet needs, you can provide more for your family and, most importantly, yourself. We’ll work toward a life where peace, confidence, and a reduced guilt become the norm. You’ll soon discover that your dream of a balanced, joyful life will become your daily reality. It’s time to model healthy self-care, and tap into your unique gifts and talents to make family life more fulfilling than you ever imagined possible. https://fulfillmenttherapy.org Connect → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com Facebook → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/fulfillmenttherapy/
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Episodes
2 days ago
2 days ago
Show Notes:
In this conversation, certified life coach and parenting expert Crystal Haitsma reveals how subconscious shame shapes our reactions to our kids—and how to break free. Drawing from her experience raising four neurodiverse kids while traveling the world, Crystal shares practical strategies to identify emotional triggers, heal inner wounds, and cultivate calm even in chaos. Learn why traditional behavior-focused parenting advice often fails, and how addressing your own hidden beliefs can transform your family. Perfect for parents craving deeper connection, less guilt, and tools to rewrite generational patterns.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Crystal’s Info:
www.coachcrystal.ca
Insagram: the.parenting.coach
Podcast: The Parenting Coach Podcast
6 days ago
6 days ago
Show Notes:
In this insightful episode, we explore the complex dynamics of codependency and enmeshment in marriages. We discuss the signs of these unhealthy patterns, their impact on both partners and the family unit, and provide practical strategies for creating a more balanced relationship. You’ll learn how to establish boundaries, grow, and build a stronger, more fulfilling marriage that positively influences your entire family.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
As Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby explains, "Codependent individuals often derive their sense of purpose from meeting the needs of their partner, which can lead to resentment and emotional exhaustion."
As one mental health professional notes, "Children of codependent parents often struggle with self-worth and may develop similar dependency issues."
Dr. Salvador Minuchin describes enmeshment as a state where "family members are overly concerned with each other's emotions, making it difficult for them to develop independently."
As Melody Beattie wisely states, "Once I realized it was okay for me to think about and identify what I wanted, remarkable things began to take place in my life".
As Darlene Lancer notes, "When we let go of our reactions and detach from other people's moods, actions, and words, we take back our power".
Dr. Kristin Davin emphasizes, "Being overly emotionally needy — too demanding, clingy, annoying, fragile — can spell disaster for your relationship".
Monday Apr 14, 2025
Monday Apr 14, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode of Fulfilment Therapy, we explore the spectrum of life paces, from constantly busy "doers" to procrastinating "existers." We discuss the virtues and vices of each extreme, how to recognize escapism, and practical strategies for finding a balanced pace that promotes personal growth and family well-being. Listeners will gain insights on self-awareness, setting realistic goals, and making small, consistent changes for a more fulfilling life.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
"The first step toward change is awareness. The second step is acceptance." - Nathaniel Branden
"Life is about balance. Be kind, but don't let people abuse you. Trust, but don't be deceived. Be content, but never stop improving yourself." - Zig Ziglar
Thursday Apr 10, 2025
Thursday Apr 10, 2025
Show Notes:
In this heartfelt conversation, suburban homesteader and podcast host Alicia Rose opens up about her journey from burnout to intentional living. She shares practical strategies for parents seeking more peace, including her Sunday fridge reset routine, kid-friendly mason jar snack system, and the journaling exercise that helped her redefine success. Learn how small acts like gardening or preserving food can become mindfulness practices, why challenging limiting beliefs about “perfect” homesteading setups matters, and how to align daily choices with your deepest family values. Perfect for parents craving a slower lifestyle and tangible ways to nurture both their homes and mental health.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Alicia’s Links:
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-roses-homestead-homesteading-gardening-PODCAST_cooking/id1737426965
FB GROUP-https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Ba2hVzep8/
BLOG-https://roseshomesteadliving.com/
Monday Apr 07, 2025
Monday Apr 07, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore how to navigate life's most challenging moments with strength and grace. Drawing from personal stories and expert insights, I offer practical strategies for finding meaning in adversity, practicing self-care, and supporting loved ones through tough times. You will learn how to develop a resilient mindset, build a strong support network, and use difficult experiences as catalysts for personal growth and deeper fulfillment.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
"The human capacity for burden is like bamboo - far more flexible than you'd ever believe at first glance." - Jodi Picoult
"The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." - Nelson Mandela
Thursday Apr 03, 2025
Thursday Apr 03, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore the importance of nurturing our unique gifts and talents as parents, drawing inspiration from Whitney Houston's extraordinary voice and the craftsmanship of Stradivarius violins. We uncover practical exercises for discovering your talents, overcoming fears and limiting beliefs, and moving from complacency to a more fulfilling life. I also share my personal experience with loss and how it fueled my passion for helping others live fully and face their fears.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
"The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away." - Pablo Picasso
"Everyone has been made for some particular work, and the desire for that work has been put in every heart." - Rumi
"We can't become what we need to be by remaining what we are." - Oprah Winfrey
"The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Monday Mar 31, 2025
Monday Mar 31, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of finding fulfillment beyond happiness, drawing inspiration from Jody Moore's journey as a successful coach, author, and podcaster. We'll explore tips for parents to manage their mental health, overcome challenges, and achieve personal growth while nurturing their families. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, seeking better work-life balance, or simply wanting to take your parenting skills to the next level, this episode is for you!
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Jody’s Links:
Podcast: Better Than Happy
Instagram: @jodymoorecoaching www.jodymoore.com/freecoaching
Thursday Mar 27, 2025
Thursday Mar 27, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we explore the crucial balance between selflessness and self-care for parents. We discuss signs of imbalance, the benefits of finding balance, and practical strategies for taking care of yourself while still being an amazing parent. Through real-life examples and expert insights, you will learn how to create a more fulfilling family life by prioritizing their own well-being alongside their children's needs.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
"The greatest conflicts are not between two people but between one person and himself." - Garth Brooks
"Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare." - Audre Lorde
"An empty lantern provides no light. Self-care is the fuel that allows your light to shine brightly." - Unknown
"The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others." - Mahatma Gandhi
Monday Mar 24, 2025
Monday Mar 24, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we delve into the importance of honest self-reflection in marriage with our guest, Kensi Evans. She shares her personal experiences of transitioning from a people-pleasing person to embracing assertiveness, and how this shift has positively impacted her relationships. We discuss the challenges of growth within marriage, the beauty of embracing imperfections, and practical tips for creating self-awareness and honest communication with your partner.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
Show Notes:
In this episode, we tackle the challenging issue of emotional unavailability in marriages and how it can lead to feelings of disconnection and loneliness. We explore the root causes of emotional immaturity, its impact on relationships, and provide steps to create emotional growth and intimacy between partners. Listen in to gain valuable insights into creating a safe space for emotional expression, developing empathy, and rebuilding a strong emotional connection with their spouse.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy
Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org
Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org
Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy
Facebook Group → Private FB Group
Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
Quotes:
As Lindsay C. Gibson points out, "When parents refuse to grow emotionally, their children become their emotional caretakers."
"Growing up with emotionally immature parents means learning to cope with emotional chaos as a survival skill," Gibson adds.
As Dr. Carla Marie Manly notes, "In a marriage, if someone is emotionally unavailable, it can lead to feelings of isolation, loneliness, unmet needs, lack of intimacy and difficult feelings."
Natalie Lue provides insight into the root of this behavior: "Fear is an emotional response to a perceived danger - for him that danger is the consequences of commitment and intimacy. The danger isn't you per se; it's all the things that you and your expectations, needs, and wants bring to his life."
As Gibson reminds us, "Healing from emotional neglect begins when you recognize that you are worthy of the love you didn't receive."
As Natalie Lue reminds us, "Emotionally unavailable means not fully emotionally present. It's struggling or being unable to access emotions healthily and as a result, being emotionally distant due to 'walls' which basically act as barriers to true emotional intimacy."
As Gibson wisely states, "The unpredictability of an emotionally immature parent leaves children constantly on edge."